Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Due date

After an emotional discussion with my hubby, we decided that we are just going to light a candle to remember our due date with Cadynce.

It's an unrealized milestone (as will be all the others, as you all well know unfortunately).  We want to remember the date she was born to us not the date she was due.  We probably write her notes and release balloons on her birthday in October.

Thank you for all your ideas, I want to just do everyone of them, but Chris is a stick in the mid.  Just kidding.  I think writing her a note and sending it to Heaven will be the best way for us on her birthday.

Al

8 comments:

bibc said...

xoxo
i like that idea of remembering her birthday and who she was instead of what might have been. i wish it was different but i think that's the best we can do. we have to move forward and remember, but not get dragged down by what should have been. im right there with you.
sending you peace and hugs today.
lis

Franchesca said...

That is a sweet idea. It's so nice to be able to do something for your precious baby girl together. xx

Maggie said...

That's a great idea! Thinking of you. XO

Holly said...

A simple yet beautiful gesture.

I just grabbed your button!

Unknown said...

I think that's the perfect gesture and I will be thinking of you.

Unknown said...

I think that's the perfect gesture and I will be thinking of you.

My Endo Journey said...

We'll be lifting her up with you.

HUGS!

Anonymous said...

Its an emotional day and hope your day was as peaceful as it could have been. I am real behind on blogs. I apologize for the late post. *hugs*