We lost our daughter Cadynce Alice on October 10, 2009, at 20 wks due to incompetent cervix. This is my journey through surviving the grief and learning who I am now...on to our trying for our rainbow.
Sunday, October 25, 2009
i wish
I wish I could wake up and find out that the last 2 weeks were bad dream. I should be 22 weeks pregnant right now
I wish that for you too Ali. I wish it for everyone that has lost a child. I wish I could turn back the clock to a year ago knowing now that my son would die. I would do so many things differently than I did at the time. Sending you hugs
Ali, My heart goes out to you. I too have lost babies to an incompetent cervix. The only advice I can give you is to take time to grieve, no matter how long it takes. Know that we are here to offer support, solicited advice, and any words of encouragement you may need. I am also a member of an incompetent support forum. There are many women here to help and support. This site helped me to find answers and hear from the experience of others. http://ic.hobh.org/forums. Hugs to you.
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I wish that for you too Ali. I wish it for everyone that has lost a child. I wish I could turn back the clock to a year ago knowing now that my son would die. I would do so many things differently than I did at the time. Sending you hugs
Ali - I wish too..... so many things.
I am so, so sorry about your precious Cady. You are still so fresh in this journey... the days can take a toll. Keeping you in my heart and thoughts.
xo
I am so very sorry. I wish that everything could just be wiped away and nothing could hurt you.
Much love and big warm hugs.
I'm so sorry for your loss :(
So genuinely sorry for your loss, Ali. Sending heartfelt peace your way...
I am sovery sorry for your loss. Holding you in my heart and wishing you peace.
Ali, My heart goes out to you. I too have lost babies to an incompetent cervix. The only advice I can give you is to take time to grieve, no matter how long it takes. Know that we are here to offer support, solicited advice, and any words of encouragement you may need. I am also a member of an incompetent support forum. There are many women here to help and support. This site helped me to find answers and hear from the experience of others. http://ic.hobh.org/forums.
Hugs to you.
I'm so sorry. Though I've never lost a child the same way you did, I have had five miscarrages, and there is nothing to say to make the pain go away.
LFCA
Holding you close. Wishing this was all a bad dream. Sending you love and light.
I am so sorry and I wish I had word of great comfort that I could offer you but I can't.
Instead I offer you a supportive hug from someone you don't know from the other side of the world.
xxxx
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